D&M allows you to focus directly on some of the more important issues or concerns you may face.

D&M highlights various stages that are relevant to these issues:

What works for you Relationship break-up Loss of work, financial loss Addictions Coping with catastrophes Madness, dealing with anger Getting on a spiritual path Greater awareness Why?

And, these are the processes selected for each of these major Issues:

What works for you:

A simple Way Centering Connecting with love Relationship fundamentals Progressive relationships Spiritual fundamentals Creativity Thinking for yourself Music, art, beauty The inner smile

Relationship break-up:

Recognising a relationship problem

When love is and is not the answer The nature of relationship problems Decision making in a relationship Clearing feelings Exploring feelings in depth Centering Conflict Hurt Separation Finding a sense of completion Changes which occur in growth and healing People of the lie destructive relationships

Loss of work, financial loss:

The changing criteria for 'success' Doing what you love, loving what you do Work, acting in accordance with your purpose Know who you are and what you want to be Clarify your purpose Developing a life plan Career choices Addiction to work or money Managing your self in changing times.

Stress, illness, or loss of life:

Illness Anxiety, stress Lack of energy, fatigue Overcoming the fear of death Centering How to heal your life

Addictions:

Releasing limiting patterns of behavior Addiction (drugs or alcohol) Addiction (other forms) Smoking Sex Addictive relationships Emotional addiction Addiction to work or money Religious addiction The addiction of life Examine the context of your life

Coping with catastrophes:

Centering Life awareness Develop a non-crisis method of handling problems Deal with unavoidable problems Managing your self in changing times Letting go of the past Fear

Madness, dealing with anger:

option value="Emotions - deal with what is wrong in the right way">Emotions - deal with what is wrong in the right way Exploring feelings in depth Emotional overload, dumping Being a victim Conflict, aggression Be empowered in your being

Getting on a spiritual path:

A simple Way The three spheres Meditate Waking up to a higher purpose Developing a philosophy of life Spiritual fundamentals Find a higher purpose in being enlightenment

Thinking of the future:

A world of change, expect the unexpected Managing your self in changing times Clearing the mind, and increasing awareness Letting go of the past Life awareness Aligning your self with a greater reality/truth Civilisation its rise, fall, and end The Way of Heaven

Greater awareness:

Increasing awareness Decision-making awareness Self awareness Life awareness Relationships awareness Spiritual awareness Consciousness

Finally, the section on "Why?" provides material to help you think about some of the larger issues in life, which may have the greatest impact on your life:

Why should I believe in The Universe or something greater than myelf? Why do we suffer in life? Why can't we all get along or love one another? Why am I accountable for my actions? Why shouldn't I use drugs, alcohol, or tobacco? Why can't I solve my relationship problems? Why do I keep ruminating about the past? Why can't I make my child behave? Why am I here? Why can't I solve my problems the way I think? Why do I need to be like everyone else? Why haven't I ever been told the truth in life?

Why aren't all of our problems solved by politics, religion, science, medicine, law, education, war, economics, or basic human kindness?

D&M provides basic and comprehensive Problem-Solving processes, which lead you through the stages of problem solving, without your having to know them in advance. By selecting a Problem-Solving process, you cover:

• Goals and Objectives
• Problem Definition
• Analysis and Problem-Solving Methods
• Recognition of Solutions
• Motivation
• Intuition
• Completion
  

Analysis and Problem Solving includes these PRELIMINARY PROBLEM-SOLVING METHODS:

love truth honesty simplicity trust nonviolence respect integrity commitment responsibility faithfulness

Finally, Completion helps you to find a sense of completion, within you, in all of your relationships. It includes:

being free from emotional upset completing past relationships feelings completing relationships with parents.

The Inspiration section includes processes to touch the deepest levels of your being, to help you to know your true self and to find a Higher inspiration. It has material relevant to these broad areas:

a simple Way thinking for yourself being wisdom of the ages waking up spiritual fundamentals music, art, beauty what if some poetry good humor spiritual awareness questions and answers